25 Signs You're Succeeding At Life (Even If It Doesn't Feel Like It)

BY SHANNON KAISER
 

1. Your relationships are less dramatic than they use to be.
你的伴侶關系沒有過去那么戲劇化了。
 

2. You may not have as much money as you want but you live a rich life.
你或許沒有你想的那么有錢，而你卻過著豐富的生活。
 

3. You're not afraid to ask for help and support.
你不怕尋求幫助和支持。
 

4. Where you live feels like home.
你生活的地方感覺就像家。
 

5.You’ve raised your standards.
你提高了你的標準。
 

6.You let go of things that don’t make you feel good.
你放下了那些讓你感覺不好的事物。
 

7.You have moments where you appreciate who you see in the mirror.
當你望著鏡子時，你有欣賞鏡子里面那個人的時刻了。
 

8.You're working on limiting your inner critic and consciously choosing more positive thoughts.
你有限制自己內在的批評，并有意識地選擇更正面的想法。
 

9. You’ve learned that setbacks and failure are part of self-growth.
你懂得了挫折和失敗是自我成長的一部分。
 

10. You have a support system that includes people who would do anything for you.
你有一套支持的系統，里面包括那些肯為你做任何事的人。
 

11. You hear “I love you” often, from friends, family or a partner.
你經常聽到“我愛你”，從你的朋友、家人或者伴侶那里。
 

12. You've accepted what you can’t change, but change what you can.
你接受了那些你不能改變的事，但是去改變那些你能改變的事。
 

13. You don’t complain much, but instead focus on solutions.
你不怎么抱怨，而是專注于解決辦法。
 

14. You don’t blame your parents, and accept them for who they are.
你不埋怨你的父母，而是如實接受他們是怎樣的人。
 

15. You stopped caring about what others think of you.
你停止在意別人怎么看你。
 

16. You're happy for your exes when they move on.
當你的前任伴侶繼續他們的人生時,你為他們高興。
 

17. You can celebrate others' successes.
你能夠為他人的成功而慶賀。
 

18. You allow yourself to feel your feelings and are comfortable sharing them.
你允許自己感受自己的感受，而且可以自在分享它們。
 

19. You have passions that you pursue.
你有自己熱愛的喜好。
 

20. You're able to accept compliments without deflecting
 你能夠接受稱贊，而不會飄飄然。
 

21. You have things to look forward to.
你有你期待的事情。
 

22. You have goals that have come true.
你有已經實現了的目標。
 

23. You have empathy for others.
你對他人有同理心（能體會到別人的感受）。
 

24. You feel connected to your work.
你感覺與你的工作有連接（有意義、有共鳴）。
 

25. You love deeply and open yourself up to be loved by others.
你愛得深，也敞開讓自己被他人愛著。
 

(英文摘自mindbodygreen.com，中文由InspiringLeaders翻譯。）