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　也許每個職場人士都知道《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - 高效能人士的7個習慣》這本書，但也許你不知道，這本書的作者還專門針對年幼孩子和中小學生，寫過另外兩本著名的書：《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》

　　很多美國學校根據這兩本書的內容，給學生們畫了一個叫 7棵習慣樹 / The 7 Habits Tree －的海報，作為孩子們品格教育的參照綱領。

　　說實話，在中國，大多數人這方面的教育開始得太晚了。當真正有所領悟的時候，往往人生已為時已晚。而從小養成這些好習慣的孩子，未來的路多數會走得比較順暢和快樂。

所以，今天就介紹一下 The 7 Habits Tree，希望對大家有幫助。

這幅海報用一棵大樹來比喻孩子一生中要培養的好習慣。從樹根開始從下往上，這7個習慣像一棵樹一樣逐漸長成。

1Be proactive － you're in charge

積極主動，我的人生我負責

I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

我對自己負責，做事積極主動。我管理自己的行為、態度和情緒。我做了錯事不怪別人。不用別人說我也會去做正確的事情，哪怕沒有人在看。

2Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan

有目標，有計劃

I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.

做事前我會定計劃和目標。我做有意義和帶來積極影響的事。我是班級里的重要一員，為學校事務做貢獻。我希望成為一個好公民。

3Put first things first - Work first, then play

做事分主次，先工作，后娛樂

I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

我在重要的事情上花時間。不該做的事，我勇于說不。我制定優先級，做日程表，執行我的計劃。我對自己有紀律，做事井井有條。

4Think win-win - Everyone can win

從互贏角度考慮問題，利己利人

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

我勇于爭取自己想要的，但是我同時也會考慮別人的需求。我在別人的情感銀行帳號里放下我的存款。有矛盾的時候，我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案。

5Seek first to understand, then to be understood

先去理解別人，再求被人理解

I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.

我仔細聆聽別人的主意和情感。我努力從他人角度去理解問題。聽別人說話的時候我不插嘴、不打擾。我很有信心說出我自己的主意。別人說話的時候，我直視他的眼睛。

6Synergize － Together is better

協同－合作會更好

I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.

我珍重別人的優點，向他們學習。我和大家很好相處，即使他們和我很不一樣。我能有效地進行團隊合作，因為我知道合作比單打獨斗能帶來更好的解決方案。我保持謙虛的精神。

7Sharpen the saw－Balance feels best

磨刀不誤砍柴工，尋求健康和平衡

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.

我主意飲食、鍛煉和睡眠。我花時間和家人、朋友在一起。我在各種地方都能以各種方式學到很多東西－學習的地方可不止于學校。我用有意義的方式去幫助別人。

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